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It’s been a while since my last post and I want to tell you something I’ve learned lately.

The Importance of Listening
Studies have shown that non-Christians feel Christians don’t listen enough to them or care about who they are. In an article by Outreach Magazine a non-Christian was quoted as saying, “I’d say 75% of these people don’t really care who I am. They just want to build up their church or something. They don’t even ask me what my name is … .”

Good listening skills are always important, and evangelism is not an exception. Being an introvert, it is easy for me to fall into the trap of thinking that I am a good listener. However, that mentality is far from the truth. Being an introvert is not equivalent to being a good listener. Listening skills are something we all could hone.
Sometimes the best way to win someone over is by first listening.

A Few Questions
In evangelism, the importance of listening cannot be underestimated. Let’s ask ourselves a few questions:

1.)    Do I frequently judge a person based on his or her first sentence, without listening to the rest of what is being said?
2.)    Do I ignore what people say if I don’t agree with them or don’t like the way they say something?
3.)    Do I spend more time thinking about what I am going to say next than I do in listening to what is being said?
4.)    Do I interrupt people to share the gospel, or for that matter, any reason at all?
5.)    Do I struggle to listen actively and engage in conversations using my senses?

If the answer is “Yes” to any of the above questions, it might be time to work on improving one’s listening skills. Good listening takes hard work, but it is worth the effort.

In the course of my speaking to many Christians, I’ve encountered many churches that have very active outreach and community service programs:

• After school tutoring
• Shut in or Prisoner Visitation
• Habitat for Humanity work projects
• Medical outreaches for the community
• Participating in Crop Walks for Hunger Relief
• Food pantries, clinics, shelters for the homeless

These are just examples, and I am sure you can add hundreds more from your local community.

The questions I ask and we kick around in friendly discussion:

• Is that outreach?
• Is that evangelism?
• Is that home missions?
• Is that simply good deeds?
• Is that missional outreach?
• Is that marketing in disguise?
• Is that a demonstration of God’s love?

A cup of cold water

What is clear is that we have blurred the line between evangelism and outreach.  Discussions I’ve had bounce all over the map.

In some corners of the church, this is evangelism because it demonstrates the gospel.  No explanation needed.

Other corners argue this not evangelism because the gospel is not verbally shared.  It’s simply social action.

Depends on how you define your terms.

Acts of Christian service and charity, social outreach to your community are good and noble efforts.  Many are propelled theologically by the parable of the sheep and the goats (Matthew 25:31-46), giving a cup of cold water to the least of these.

Yet what is it that separates your Christian service from that of the local Rotary club?

What makes your acts of compassion different from my atheist friend who does community service through the Peace Corps?

How does the recipient know the difference?

How do the recipients of your outreach interpret or give meaning to your outreach?

Lets look at a little story:

Panama Olympian Irving Saladino won the first ever gold medal for this country during the 2008 Summer Olympics in Bejing.

The last medal won was 60 years ago and it was bronze.  Irving Saladino won the gold in the Long Jump competition.

During his jumps, nationally televised in Panama around 6.30 am,  the nation was at a virtual standstill.  People were watching it in groups at friend’s houses.  Taxi drivers had pulled over to side of the road to listen to the radio.  Everyone it seemed, went to work late.

On his two or three jumps, he wore one red shoe and one blue shoe, reflecting the national team colors.  However, on his next to last jump, he changed his shoes to a gold color.

The commentators and “man on the street” interviews all got excited:

• “He’s going for the gold”
• “He’s put on his lucky shoes”
• “He’s telling us this will be the gold medal jump.”

They were applying meaning to the color change of shoes.

That jump turned out to be the gold medal winning jump.

The country erupted in celebration.  Facebook photos of celebrations, cheering, and national happiness.  People on the street celebrated by blowing their car horns in celebration.  Crowds formed spontaneously on the street.  National productivity of the workforce shut down for the day as Panama won its first ever gold medal.

The meaning of the shoes?

When asked by a reporter about what he was trying to communicate with his shoes, Saladino mentioned that the laces in his red and blue pair got tangled up and he didn’t have the time to fix it.

He put on his gold colored backup shoes so he wouldn’t be disqualified for being late to the starting line.

Very different meaning than what the nation watching on live television thought.

People gave it meaning based on their hopes, dreams, and worldview.

Meaning is given if not provided

Bring that back to your church’s outreach.

What might your recipients think about your outreach?

How can they tell that it is a “Cup of Cold Water given in My Name?”

In my experience, meaning is naturally given if not supplied by the giver.

Outreach in partnership with Evangelism

Is social action:

• A Means to evangelism
• A Manifestation of evangelism
• A Partner of Evangelism

Good works demonstrate our faith.

Yet without any overt or clear explanation that our actions are propelled by God’s grace, what makes our good deed any different than what the local Lions club does or what good corporate citizens provide through their charitable foundations?

It’s not an either/or proposition for me.  Both social action and explanation via words are necessary forms of sharing.

Deeds are love demonstrated, but a further explanation of the gospel is necessary to give meaning to our actions.  Otherwise, our actions are ripe for misinterpretation.

Practically what does this mean?

Many churches are actively engaged in good works in their community.

Yet can their members explain their personal faith along the way?

Can churches train their members to grow comfortable talking about their faith with the people they are serving?

What if, as part of the planning for outreach events, the church provided a training opportunity about talking about your faith?

What if, as part of praying for the outreaches, the church also prayed that conversations about Jesus would happen?

What if, as part of serving the community, the people were able to provide meaning of their service by talking about their personal relationship with Christ?

Let me ask you this?

Think about your church’s outreach.

In what ways can your church provide meaning to the recipients through the verbal sharing of your faith?